pappabearbooks Chapter 495 Xu Damao Wants to Do Big Things
Chapter 495 Xu Damao Wants to Do Big Things
Xu Damao opened his mouth, completely at a loss as to how to refute.
You've even brought this up with society, how the hell am I supposed to answer this?
After thinking for a while, he retorted: "But humans are social animals and always live under the eyes of others. You can't just pretend that other people's eyes don't exist, right? For example, if you want to walk on the street without clothes, but everyone thinks it's not good, you can't really not care about what everyone thinks, right?"
Ding Qiunan rolled his eyes and said, "These are two different things."
Xu Damao retorted, "It's the same thing. It's the same principle. The idea of passing on the family line has been like this since ancient times. It has become an iron rule. It's no less serious than you running naked in the street."
Ding Qiunan waved his hand and said impatiently: "Then I just want to live for myself, okay?"
"I just don't want to have a child with someone I don't like. I think it's not worth having that kind of child. Instead of spending so much energy and money, can't I just enjoy it myself?"
"I have my own salary, can't I save it for my old age? Can I live worse than other people with children?"
"People come and go naked. I have been through so much hardship for so many years. Why should I worry about all this? Can't I just live freely?"
"I don't steal or rob, and I don't interfere with other people's lives. I live my own life, I can eat whatever I want, I can wear whatever I want, and when I die, I can just ask someone to scatter my ashes in the sea, so they don't take up any space, how nice."
Xu Damao: "..."
He was really speechless.
Of course, he also understood that it would be really great if he really lived like Ding Qiunan, but the question was, how much mental quality would it require? To do so, one must not care what others say. How many people can do that?
Ding Qiunan seemed to see what Xu Damao was thinking, and said with a smile: "Why care so much about others? It's only true when you enjoy it yourself. Everyone has a different lifestyle and different concepts. Why force it?"
"Of course, I'm a woman, so it's easier for me to do this. You're a man, so you naturally have to consider more. So I don't force you to do it the way I do, right?"
The traditional concept is that men are mainly responsible for carrying on the family line.
Ding Qiunan is a woman who has long since left her original home. It can be said that as long as she wants, she can be completely relaxed. If she is happy, she can send some money to her parents, and if she is unhappy, she can not give anything. Anyway, she has done her best for the family she is with, and no one dares to accuse her of being unfilial.
But Xu Damao is different. He is the only son in his family and he must carry on the family line, otherwise his father and mother will be so angry that they will die.
"If I have a child with someone I don't like, and the child has to have someone else's surname, as a woman, after I die, the inscription on my tombstone will only have the surname Ding. I don't even have a full name. What do I want? I have plenty of money now, why should I suffer that? If I want to play with men and vent my physical desires, can't I spend money to find a job? I can change every day if I want."
Ding Qiunan waved his hand: "Forget it, let's not talk about this, let's go to sleep."
The corners of Xu Damao's mouth twitched, but in his heart he was actually somewhat envious of Ding Qiunan's way of thinking about life. Damn, if he were a woman, would he be able to be so free and easy?
But he quickly found the point and asked, "What if it's with the man you like?"
Ding Qiunan turned around and said speechlessly, "Aren't you talking nonsense? It's all what I like, so isn't having and raising children also a kind of enjoyment? This is called emotional value. To sum it up, no matter what I do, I enjoy it if I am happy, and I suffer if I am not happy. Even if others think it is good, as long as I feel bad, it is suffering."
Xu Damao nodded in agreement, then smiled and said, "What if I ask you to give birth to a child for Master?"
"Ah?" Ding Qiunan didn't react for a moment.
Xu Damao repeated it again and said, "What if I ask you to give birth to a child for Master?"
Ding Qiunan said angrily: "Xu Damao, what kind of bullshit are you talking about? Why don't you just say I want to go to heaven?"
Xu Damao smiled slyly: "I am just hypothetical, what if Master agrees?"
Ding Qiunan said unhappily, "I think you should just go to bed. Dreams can bring you anything."
After saying that, he went back to his room.
Xu Damao sat in the living room, deep in thought.
He did nothing after marrying Ding Qiunan, and they actually divorced later, but no one else knew about it. Although they still lived together, they were actually more of a senior-senior brother-sister relationship, or friends who could talk about anything.
There are some things that I would definitely help with if I could.
An idea popped up in Xu Damao's mind. Should he make some arrangements to help Ding Qiunan realize his dream?
Even though Ding Qiunan said it so casually, Xu Damao knew that all the thoughts of this woman were helpless. She was reluctant to do so and would rather have nothing than have something bad, rather than truly seeing through life and becoming free.
If possible, helping Ding Qiunan fulfill his wish before going abroad would be the last thing he could do as a senior brother.
After all, it was he who asked Ding Qiunan to go abroad, so he wanted to give something in return.
.........
The next day.
Xu Damao went to the hospital to hand over all the procedures. Because he was going abroad, there were still some things that needed to be handed over after resigning. At the same time, he was also going to ask Ding Qiunan when she would resign so that he could go through the procedures for going abroad together.
However, on his way to the office to find Ding Qiunan, he suddenly saw Ding Qiunan holding a report in his hand, looking at it seriously.
So Xu Damao didn't bother her any more, but followed Ding Qiunan and waited for Ding Qiunan to finish reading the report before he spoke.
As he walked, he glanced at the report in Ding Qiunan's hand.
It doesn’t matter if you don’t see it, you will be shocked when you see it!
As an expert in fertility, he knows this report very well. Isn't this an examination of reproductive function?
Still seems to be a female?
Xu Damao took a deep breath and thought, could this be the examination Ding Qiunan conducted on him before leaving? Could it be that...Ding Qiunan and he had the same idea, and planned to overthrow Li Zhenmin before going abroad and then try to have a child?
You are so good, Ding Qiunan, you said no, but you actually did such a big thing behind my back!
The more Xu Damao thought about it, the more she felt that this was the case, so she continued reading and found that everything in the report was normal, which meant that Ding Qiunan's reproductive function was still intact.
Before they knew it, they arrived at the office door.
Ding Qiunan suddenly noticed that there seemed to be someone next to him. He turned around and found that it was Xu Damao. He was immediately startled and scolded: "What are you doing? Do you know that scaring others can kill them?"
He said this and walked into the office angrily.
Xu Damao followed in with a smile on his face.
Ding Qiunan was getting angrier and angrier as she thought about it. Just as she was about to speak, she saw Xu Damao looking at the medical report in her hand and said with a half-smile, "Okay, Ding Qiunan. You did such a big thing behind my back without telling me. Who are you going to give birth to a child for?"